If you suspect that your spouse is being less-than-faithful to you, you are no doubt experiencing a lot of stress. No matter why you suspect them, you have a right to know what is going on. Period. There is an easy way to find out if your husband or wife has been cheating.

As detective work goes, this is child's play. Just a few simple, easy to follow steps are needed. Read on to find out more about these steps which can help you find out just what is going on.

The First Step

To accomplish this first step, it is important to get your spouse away from their cell phone for ten to fifteen minutes (longer, if possible) so that you can look at it. Pick a time when they won't be able to catch you at this.

A decent time is to wait until they just get into the shower or head out to the store so you are certain that you have some time to yourself.

When you have their cell phone, get a pen and paper.

Locate their call history on the phone and write down all of the outgoing and incoming call numbers. If you see numbers you know, leave them out. Be certain to write down any number you don't recognize, however.

With this finished, put the phone back where you found it and go to the computer.

The Second Step

When you have your completed list, you are going to "investigate" who owns of every number on the list.

A reverse phone look up can often give you much information about someone with only their phone number to work from. Name, address and more can be found about the owner of the phone in question.

These days many numbers are not to be found in the phone book - with the proliferation of cell phones and the growing number of people choosing to be unlisted, it can be hard to find out the information you are seeking.

Fortunately, there are businesses that fork over good money to have access to full records to cell phones and numbers that aren't in the phonebook. They then build databases that anyone can use.

While these databases are not free to access, the cost is very low. If you have reason to suspect that your spouse has been cheating, the cost is a small price to pay to find out the truth.

A good way to save some money is to use a service that charges a "once-only" fee for unlimited searches. You are only charged the one time and can then conduct a search whenever you want. Since your list will have more than one phone number so you do not want to be charged every time you run a search. We included a link at the end of this article if you want to try a free sample search at one of these sites.

Run a search on each unidentified phone number in your spouse's call history. Write down the results of these searches.

The Final Step

Last of all, have a look through the names your searches have pulled up for you. Do you see anything suspicious here? In many cases, when cheating is suspected there is a specific person with whom you think your spouse may be fooling around. Do you see this person on your list of names?

You now at the very least know to whom your spouse has been talking. If you suspect infidelity on their part, this can be a good first step to discovering what is going on.

The beauty of this easy plan is that it lets you find out some important answers about your spouse. I hope you get the details you need and discover if you are in a relationship with someone who treats you with the respect you deserve.